want woman to marry to

Date: Oct 23, 2008

want woman to marry to

SeeHarHed · Guru

I like this guy style of searching for a soulmate. Good luck der Aii Souk, ya su leum earn pai kin hua pet hua kai der.. yark pai lin yu tel Seattle.

Samakomlao keu si mee poo sao lao jaidee lai yu dork Aii Souk. Your phone will be ringing off the hook soon. LOL!!!

Date: Oct 23, 2008

Thank, SHH,
you are always welcome and can stop by anytime on your way west, just ring the #.

again thaks,

Date: Oct 23, 2008

Ai Souk,

I hope you don't mind i'm asking you how long have you been a single-dad?
You seem like you're running out of patience and rushing into the relationship.

calm down...you'll find the right lady one day!!!

Date: Oct 23, 2008

SeeHarHed wrote:

I like this guy style of searching for a soulmate. Good luck der Aii Souk, ya su leum earn pai kin hua pet hua kai der.. yark pai lin yu tel Seattle.

Samakomlao keu si mee poo sao lao jaidee lai yu dork Aii Souk. Your phone will be ringing off the hook soon. LOL!!!

i think you should marry him biggrin

SeeHarHed · Guru

Anonymous wrote:

Thank, SHH,
you are always welcome and can stop by anytime on your way west, just ring the #.

again thaks,

Kob jai lai lai der Aii Souk!!! By the way, you know any band members from Seattle? Don't tell me you're one of those golfers from Seattle/Everette?

Date: Oct 23, 2008

SHH,

i don't go out much, know a few of our ppl. that is 1 of the resons why my ex, left me. anyway i can not say bad thing behind her back, bcoz we were not fight or any scandale. one day she just told me she want to be alone. i was not at myself for some time. i did and still do my part to support the family. we get a home, cars as any young family. i know i m not perfect, but i put my kids and family at the priority. put the roof over head, food on the table, clothes, shoes and whatever the nowaday needs. i m not holding the degree, but i never put my family to be shame plate. i don't do much,but enought for a young family. right now everybody knows, it's bad time to talk about maney adn i think, that we have to live moderately.

Ai Souk,

I hope you don't mind i'm asking you how long have you been a single-dad?
You seem like you're running out of patience and rushing into the relationship.

calm down...you'll find the right lady one day!!!

not very long, my ex is coming and stay over night 2-3 days of the weekm but we are legaly devorced. she comes to see kids and stays with them.

Date: Oct 23, 2008

Anonymous wrote:

not very long, my ex is coming and stay over night 2-3 days of the weekm but we are legaly devorced. she comes to see kids and stays with them.

Ah... Since you ex is still around, especially spending 2-3 nights/week at your place, it would be very difficult for the new lady to consider marry you.
Sorry...it is common sense and as women i know how they feel.

khonthakek · Guru

i know a girl who just divorced last year and she have got a little boy, she is very cute and kind, she s not Laotian but Asian, she LOVES LAO MAN!!!!!IF YOU LIKE CHINESE GIRL.. GIVE ME YOUR EMAIL...

Date: Oct 23, 2008

OOps..
Correction:
your ex

Date: Oct 23, 2008

I am still single with one son, but no husband now because

I am seperate from my man

But i am lao 100%

Can we be friend ? Ai souk

Lan_Xang · Guru

Anonymous wrote:

Tired of flirting and asking girls to love me. I want to remarry to honest and nice woman. I mean nice by asian standart. I am laotian and would like my partner to be laotian and if possible, to live in or around Seattle, Washington state. I will have to adjust less than if she is not laotian. I work night shift, making OK living to support my 2 teenager boys.

I hope some woman here or someone you know of, would like to share the same destiny as mine, please call 425-829-7051

yours,
souk.

Souk,

You can't ask anyone to love you. It doesn't work like that.

I doubt it if you can find any wife on this forum or internet. Chance of finding a good women for a wife probably even slimmer.

Date: Oct 23, 2008

ai sook u only wannt poo sao in usa bor? bor yak dai saolao in laos bor?.
it can be der lanxang the future we not know.

SeeHarHed · Guru

Anonymous wrote:

SeeHarHed wrote:

I like this guy style of searching for a soulmate. Good luck der Aii Souk, ya su leum earn pai kin hua pet hua kai der.. yark pai lin yu tel Seattle.

Samakomlao keu si mee poo sao lao jaidee lai yu dork Aii Souk. Your phone will be ringing off the hook soon. LOL!!!

i think you should marry him

Now, you're being stupid!!! If you don't have any good comments, than just shut your pie hole!!!

Date: Oct 23, 2008

SeeHarHed wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

SeeHarHed wrote:

I like this guy style of searching for a soulmate. Good luck der Aii Souk, ya su leum earn pai kin hua pet hua kai der.. yark pai lin yu tel Seattle.

Samakomlao keu si mee poo sao lao jaidee lai yu dork Aii Souk. Your phone will be ringing off the hook soon. LOL!!!

i think you should marry him

Now, you're being stupid!!! If you don't have any good comments, than just shut your pie hole!!!

SEEHARHED, i think it's perfectly cool if you marry this dude !!!

Date: Oct 23, 2008

SeeHarHed wrote:

I like this guy style of searching for a soulmate. Good luck der Aii Souk, ya su leum earn pai kin hua pet hua kai der.. yark pai lin yu tel Seattle.

Samakomlao keu si mee poo sao lao jaidee lai yu dork Aii Souk. Your phone will be ringing off the hook soon. LOL!!!

haha...I can see some of the knuckleheads here prank calling him.

Lan_Xang · Guru

If anyone wasting their precious cents or calling time to harass Ai Souk then they must have a mental issue or social skills problem.

Date: Oct 24, 2008

Ah... Since you ex is still around, especially spending 2-3 nights/week at your place, it would be very difficult for the new lady to consider marry you.
Sorry...it is common sense and as women i know how they feel

that will be for a while, till we sell the house. she will take her place and will take kids with her. i have the right to see kids on the weekend and they will be with me 2days a week. i just can not tell her to not come, she is my ex. and my kids's mom. as i said, we did not fight. i think, that she wants me to be like a white man - romantic. Ladies, you know, i am laotian , that mean it's not in our blood, at least for me to be like ...........
romantic, for me is like retarded boy. me, i do what i say and don't talk much. as a man, i work to support my family. all the above are all my problem. i know, but sorry can not change it. i m what i am. it's bad for asian ppl, it's hard to be romantic. it's like a liar. says want thing, does different. it's not me. that's i want to let the woman, who would call me, to know.

souk

Date: Oct 24, 2008

TQ khonthakhek,

would you give her my # 425 892 7051 and tell her to call me between 7-8 am or 1-3 pm or 7-8:30 pm pacific time.

you will be at the hournor table.

souk

Date: Oct 24, 2008

TQ for your kindness, please give me a call #425 892 7051 morning 6-8 am, around noon 1-3 pm or 7-8 pm PT. hope that i can move on on my life. don't want to stuck at my abandoness.

waiting for your call
souk

Date: Oct 24, 2008

I am still single with one son, but no husband now because

I am seperate from my man

But i am lao 100%

Can we be friend ? Ai souk

TQ for your kindness, please give me a call #425 892 7051 morning 6-8 am, around noon 1-3 pm or 7-8 pm PT. hope that i can move on on my life. don't want to stuck at my abandoness.

waiting for your call
souk

P.S. that you have kid is fine for me, bcoz i have 2 boys too

Date: Oct 24, 2008

ai sook u only wannt poo sao in usa bor? bor yak dai saolao in laos bor?.
it can be der lanxang the future we not know.

it's will be easy for us to know each other if we live not far, but i don't put a fence for and of course i will consider everything, what ever comes on my way.

thanks
souk

Date: Oct 24, 2008

To Ai souk,

I can't ring you

Now i am in Laos, Vientiane

I think you know that international call is very expensive in Laos

If you don't mind an ugly woman like me we can keep in touch by e-mail

Laos
Vientiane

Date: Oct 24, 2008

"i think, that she wants me to be like a white man - romantic"

I don't think the real problem is "romantic".
After all these years she just realizes that she wants that?
And she trades "romantic" over everything including the welfare of your 2 boys?

Oh By the way... Lao men can be romantic in our own ways too...

Date: Oct 24, 2008

I don't think the real problem is "romantic".
After all these years she just realizes that shnye wants that?
And she trades "romantic" over everything including the welfare of your 2 boys?

Oh By the way... Lao men can be romantic in our own ways too...

i am not sure if i was said what i thought, but you understood my mind. i don't get it either, bcoz i thought that i had a nice family.
cute kids and lovely wife, but i was wrong. still can't figure it out how to fix it. that why i m here try to repair my destiny with help of advices and whatever good ppl can give. ppl who walked my way or in my shoes will understand me and i will appriciated very much if they would help or advice me.

thanks again.
souk

Date: Oct 24, 2008

To Ai souk,

I can't ring you

Now i am in Laos, Vientiane

I think you know that international call is very expensive in Laos

If you don't mind an ugly woman like me we can keep in touch by e-mail

Laos
Vientiane

i understand.
let me set up an account and i will let you know how we can get in contact. or if you don't mind to let me call you, what is your # and the time that's good to call ?

thanks
souk

SJCALSBM3 · Senior Member

Anonymous wrote:

To Ai souk,

I can't ring you

Now i am in Laos, Vientiane

I think you know that international call is very expensive in Laos

If you don't mind an ugly woman like me we can keep in touch by e-mail

Laos
Vientiane

why don't you text mr. souk your number thru your cell to his, so he could call you.... other way both of you could do set up a yahoo instant messenger then exchange your number there.

Date: Oct 24, 2008

To Ai souk,

I am so sorry i can't give you my phone number

because i am working for foreign company

I am not available

Is 's better to contact me by email as

XOMNIRANDONE@gmail.com

Date: Oct 24, 2008

Anonymous wrote:

Tired of flirting and asking girls to love me. I want to remarry to honest and nice woman. I mean nice by asian standart. I am laotian and would like my partner to be laotian and if possible, to live in or around Seattle, Washington state. I will have to adjust less than if she is not laotian. I work night shift, making OK living to support my 2 teenager boys.

I hope some woman here or someone you know of, would like to share the same destiny as mine, please call 425-829-7051

yours,
souk.

Ai Souk,

Good luck to you on searching your next soul-mate. One of comfort feeling in life is having a friend or someone you know you can cry on or talk to about your deepest problems. Sok Dee Der.

Date: Oct 24, 2008

Wish you meet a soul mate.

Date: Oct 24, 2008

RE: want woman to marry to

Date: Oct 24, 2008

Good luck ai,

TQ K, i will be more satisfy if you can help me to find one.

souk

Date: Oct 24, 2008

Anonymous wrote:

she is my ex. and my kids's mom. as i said, we did not fight each other. i think, she wants me to be like a white man - romantic. Ladies, you know, i am laotian , that is not in our blood, at least for me to be like being romantic, for me is like retarded boy. me, I do what i say and don't talk much. As a man, i work to support my family. all the above are all my problem. i know, but sorry can not change it. i m what i am. it's bad for asian ppl, it's hard to be romantic. it's like a liar. says one thing, does different. it's not my nature. that's i want to let the woman, who would call me, to know.

souk

I cannot imagine how hard to be romantic man in the terms of Mr. Souk 's ex. wife. It seems to me Mr. Souk is a serious man loving his family very much, working very hard to support his family so as to make his family not less important than other people family.

But at the end of the day, his dream has not come true due to the fact that he cannot be a romantic husband. That is so sad to hear.

I don't think that I am a romantic husband, but I must say that I pay attention to my family very well. I love my wife and my two kids very much. Whenever my wife's birthday, Valentine day, our wedding anniversary and Woman's day I buy small gift for her or at least I say three words to her: " I LOVE YOU". I like to praise when my wife does something I like. That is what I mean I pay attention to my wife.

Yes, we love each other as we are. I love her as she is and she loves me as I am. Love makes us being nice to each other. To be honest, I don't want to do anything that harms her feeling and she may feel the same. We are considerate, actually. I like it when my wife doesn’t like what I do, she honestly tells me. And I do the same thing. So, in this context, we learn from each other. What we can change, we change because of our love.

Having read my comment, you may think we just got married. Our daughter will be 20 years old; my son would be 14 years old soon. I plan to celebrate our 25 wedding anniversary in the new few years.

But having said that, for the Mr. Souk's case it seems to me the “romantic" could mean a lot until Mr. Souk cannot change to be. I do believe if it was not too hard he would have changed to be for the sake of his beloved two kids, if not for his wife. Imagine! Kids without parents would be like small birds who cannot fly anywhere. Their future won't be bright, no doubt.

Regards,
...

Lan_Xang · Guru

Mr Souk,

I don't think the kids will need a Mom. They are old enough now to know who their Mom is and no one can replace her. I think the kids will do fine. First I thought your kids still around 5-10. That would be a little different. That said, I wish you luck on finding a life soulmate. Everyone should have one.

SeeHarHed · Guru

I've been looking for a soulmate here in Samakomlao too!! So far, no luck at all. hahahhahaha I'll keep on trying.

Date: Oct 24, 2008

Ai Souk,

How old are you? I might be to young or to old for you. But in the same time , I am scare to be your soulmate. By listening to your story, I can tell you never take her as your priority. I think you love yourself to much. Ai Souk, sacrifice and respect are the magic keys to keep someone heart.

Date: Oct 24, 2008

Anonymous wrote:

"i think, that she wants me to be like a white man - romantic"

I don't think the real problem is "romantic".
After all these years she just realizes that she wants that?
And she trades "romantic" over everything including the welfare of your 2 boys?

Oh By the way... Lao men can be romantic in our own ways too...

I definately agree with you there Pink. I don't think it's about being romantic. Definately something else. If I'm correct, Ai Souk said that his ex-wife, one day out of nowhere she decided she wanted to leave him. I think she was having an affair....or likes someone else...or She probably was bored and wanted something new and exciting in her life. I can be wrong but it's possible.

Date: Oct 24, 2008

My man keeps telling me more than million times in ten yrs that he loves me. From bottom of my heart, I know he doesn't. But I am truely love him. Guess what? When a new guy comes in the picture, I will say Bye! Bye! Bye!

Date: Oct 24, 2008

Aii Souk,

Buck Keekar,Someday your dream will come true.
*** KEEP LOOKING!!!!!!!!!!-GOD will help you ****

Date: Oct 25, 2008

I cannot imagine how hard to be romantic man in the terms of Mr. Souk 's ex. wife. It seems to me Mr. Souk is a serious man loving his family very much, working very hard to support his family so as to make his family not less important than other people family.

But at the end of the day, his dream has not come true due to the fact that he cannot be a romantic husband. That is so sad to hear.

I don't think that I am a romantic husband, but I must say that I pay attention to my family very well. I love my wife and my two kids very much. Whenever my wife's birthday, Valentine day, our wedding anniversary and Woman's day I buy small gift for her or at least I say three words to her: " I LOVE YOU". I like to praise when my wife does something I like. That is what I mean I pay attention to my wife.

Yes, we love each other as we are. I love her as she is and she loves me as I am. Love makes us being nice to each other. To be honest, I don't want to do anything that harms her feeling and she may feel the same. We are considerate, actually. I like it when my wife doesn’t like what I do, she honestly tells me. And I do the same thing. So, in this context, we learn from each other. What we can change, we change because of our love.

Having read my comment, you may think we just got married. Our daughter will be 20 years old; my son would be 14 years old soon. I plan to celebrate our 25 wedding anniversary in the new few years.

But having said that, for the Mr. Souk's case it seems to me the “romantic" could mean a lot until Mr. Souk cannot change to be. I do believe if it was not too hard he would have changed to be for the sake of his beloved two kids, if not for his wife. Imagine! Kids without parents would be like small birds who cannot fly anywhere. Their future won't be bright, no doubt.

Regards,

TQ very much, i read and reread your experiences and i should do that very very early. now it's to late to get things back. we are already legaly devorce. anyway i will apply your advices in the future with another woman if i m lucky enought to find one. it's really looking very simple from other ppl to do as you do and i will try very hard to get what you got...

thank you very much and i appriciate your advices.

souk

Date: Oct 25, 2008

Mr Souk,

I don't think the kids will need a Mom. They are old enough now to know who their Mom is and no one can replace her. I think the kids will do fine. First I thought your kids still around 5-10. That would be a little different. That said, I wish you luck on finding a life soulmate. Everyone should have one.

i can not agree with you on this, bcoz kids young or old, they are still need both parents. in my case, they have two parents, but we live at diff. places. they are 13 and 15 yrs old boys and as you now american kids are not like back home in laos,
that so sensitive about their parents. what they care about is that we are happy with our life, than live together with problems.
appriciate your wishes and i m still hope to meet one.

thanks
souk

Date: Oct 25, 2008

Ai Souk,

How old are you? I might be to young or to old for you. But in the same time , I am scare to be your soulmate. By listening to your story, I can tell you never take her as your priority. I think you love yourself to much. Ai Souk, sacrifice and respect are the magic keys to keep someone heart.

to say that i m not young for teenager, but i m not old in my heart. i m 38 yrs old with 2 boys, 13 and 15 yrs old.
btw i m not love myself to much, bcoz i work hard to support my family. have a very small amount of time to get fun, that i think is my problem. bcoz women love more attention, i know, but i don't hold any degree, i use my mucle to bring food on the table and don't have much time for lovely walk. if i do that, i will miss the green, my kids will miss the opportunity to grow up without thinking where to sleep the next night. i know what you will feel, bcoz i was there and knew that. i will not tell you where it was at here.
i would say, i sacrified everything to do what it takes to make my family/ my ex. included/ secured, but i was wrong as i said.
i usually don't talk that much, but now it's only thing that i have to do, to not be a lone, even i m a lone ....... lol.

souk

Date: Oct 25, 2008

I definately agree with you there Pink. I don't think it's about being romantic. Definately something else. If I'm correct, Ai Souk said that his ex-wife, one day out of nowhere she decided she wanted to leave him. I think she was having an affair....or likes someone else...or She probably was bored and wanted something new and exciting in her life. I can be wrong but it's possible.

you can be right, bcoz i believed at my very close person in my life/my ex.
that why i was married to her. as you know thing changes and i feel i m the vitim of sacrifices, bcoz that is lao men back home do. we are poor and the priority is to garantee the roof, food and clothes for family and think that is good enough. i m wrong, we are in the west, means everything is diff. and i have to adjust myself to it. i m weaking to late and the train is already departed. but hope another train will come someday...... please pray with me!

souk

Date: Oct 25, 2008

My man keeps telling me more than million times in ten yrs that he loves me. From bottom of my heart, I know he doesn't. But I am truely love him. Guess what? When a new guy comes in the picture, I will say Bye! Bye! Bye!

i really love my ex, as you know i married to her and working hard to support what i said. the problem maybe i did not tell her every day that i love her, but i did love her, she knew that.
she might feel the same way that you do and just told me that she wants to be a lone, i feeled so sad and i was not on myself for some time. i didn't know what to do and where to go, when to sleep. work/get bz/ helps me me to get over it.
now want to and will try harder to give more attention to the future woman, whoever come on my way.

souk

Date: Oct 25, 2008

Buck Keekar,Someday your dream will come true

don't understand what did i do to upset you to much ?

souk

LAO SPY · Senior Member

Anonymous wrote:

I cannot imagine how hard to be romantic man in the terms of Mr. Souk 's ex. wife. It seems to me Mr. Souk is a serious man loving his family very much, working very hard to support his family so as to make his family not less important than other people family.

But at the end of the day, his dream has not come true due to the fact that he cannot be a romantic husband. That is so sad to hear.

I don't think that I am a romantic husband, but I must say that I pay attention to my family very well. I love my wife and my two kids very much. Whenever my wife's birthday, Valentine day, our wedding anniversary and Woman's day I buy small gift for her or at least I say three words to her: " I LOVE YOU". I like to praise when my wife does something I like. That is what I mean I pay attention to my wife.

Yes, we love each other as we are. I love her as she is and she loves me as I am. Love makes us being nice to each other. To be honest, I don't want to do anything that harms her feeling and she may feel the same. We are considerate, actually. I like it when my wife doesn’t like what I do, she honestly tells me. And I do the same thing. So, in this context, we learn from each other. What we can change, we change because of our love.

Having read my comment, you may think we just got married. Our daughter will be 20 years old; my son would be 14 years old soon. I plan to celebrate our 25 wedding anniversary in the new few years.

But having said that, for the Mr. Souk's case it seems to me the “romantic" could mean a lot until Mr. Souk cannot change to be. I do believe if it was not too hard he would have changed to be for the sake of his beloved two kids, if not for his wife. Imagine! Kids without parents would be like small birds who cannot fly anywhere. Their future won't be bright, no doubt.

Regards,
SPY

TQ very much, i read and reread your experiences and i should do that very very early. now it's to late to get things back. we are already legaly devorce. anyway i will apply your advices in the future with another woman if i m lucky enought to find one. it's really looking very simple from other ppl to do as you do and i will try very hard to get what you got...

thank you very much and i appriciate your advices.
souk

You are welcome Mr. Souk,

I am glad to hear your response. The fact that I gave the advices to you was because I thought you would still able to repair your relationship with the mother of your kids, who you really love. The kids need their own mother but not other woman who is not their mother.

If that is the case as said, definitely you need a new partner, who can be your soulmate, your consultant, but not your mad or your employee. She should be someone who can understand you and you can understand her all the time.

Regards,
...

Date: Oct 26, 2008

Ai Souk,

Do you believe cooking is woman job? and how often did you helping your Ex-wife to wash dishes? After she left you did you still work 40 hrs/wk or more?

Date: Oct 27, 2008

specially devote this song to Mr. Souk.

Date: Oct 27, 2008

Anonymous wrote:

specially devote this song to Mr. Souk.

Two thumbs up for the song, thanks for sharing...great sone indeed. kob jai der...peng muone lai

Date: Oct 27, 2008