Some interesting stuffs on the researches on sexual orientation. First, check out this video on homophobia. The key takeaway from this is that real straight men are not threatened by homosexuality because they got no reason to be. Whereas those who exhibit homophobia are more often than not a deeply closeted, self-hating hating gay guy. Reminds me of the those priests who preached against gays and yet have gay sex; or that straight-acting guy you know who publicly condemn gays, yet he sucks coc ks.
Some interesting stuffs on the researches on sexual orientation. First, check out this video on homophobia. The key takeaway from this is that real straight men are not threatened by homosexuality because they got no reason to be. Whereas those who exhibit homophobia are more often than not a deeply closeted, self-hating hating gay guy. Reminds me of the those priests who preached against gays and yet have gay sex; or that straight-acting guy you know who publicly condemn gays, yet he sucks ****s.
Second is an article from Scientific American bringing some latest development from studying of gay roles of top, versatile and bottom.
A few key takeaways from the article, verbatim:
Tops were more likely than both bottoms and versatiles to reject a gay self-identity and to have had sex with a woman in the past three months. They also manifested higher internalized homophobia—essentially the degree of self-loathing linked to their homosexual desires.
Versatiles seem to enjoy better psychological health. Hart and his coauthors speculate that this may be due to their greater sexual sensation seeking, lower erotophobia (fear of sex), and greater comfort with a variety of roles and activities.
Although self-labels were not associated with unprotected intercourse, tops, who engaged in a greater proportion of insertive anal sex than other groups, were also less likely to identify as gay. Non-gay-identified MSW [again, “Men Who Have Sex With Men”] may have less contact with HIV prevention messages and may be less likely to be reached by HIV-prevention programs than are gay-identified men. Tops may be less likely to be recruited in venues frequented by gay men, and their greater internalized homophobia may result in greater denial of ever engaging in sex with other men. Tops also may be more likely to transmit HIV to women because of their greater likelihood of being behaviorally bisexual.
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Really bring back to something I wrote long time ago : Gay people's worst enemy are usually gay people themselves, especially those who are in denial. I've seen it in action. Xavier's ex was verbally denouncing gay people (effeminate ones in particular) in front of some straight people. The psychology is simple: if he's seen gay-bashing, he thinks that people wouldn't consider him as gay. Gay people don't gay-bash their own kind right?
Agreed, if you don't like the topic then get out. don't call others idiots for sharing their knowledge with others. You may not like it but others may find it interesting. Not everyone is close minded as you.
What's going on wth me? I've been married for 8 yrs and very much in-love with my husband. Our sex live is good,but I have been thinking about his hot sister for quite sometime now not for love,but only 4 sex.
What's going on wth me? I've been married for 8 yrs and very much in-love with my husband. Our sex live is good,but I have been thinking about his hot sister for quite sometime now not for love,but only 4 sex.
Am I the only1 in this world? Please help me?
You mean that you are an LB? Well if you hink that you feel like your husban's sister is hot and sex and you just want to turn these pus-sy pus-sy to each other so just do cheat your husban sometime. But if that Sister in law wanted too.
No secret thing in this world, one day will be show up. You must prepare yourself to face with he problem in the future.
Think twice before you want to do something like that.
But you are not the only one who has this incident but both men and women has it too
What's going on wth me? I've been married for 8 yrs and very much in-love with my husband. Our sex live is good,but I have been thinking about his hot sister for quite sometime now not for love,but only 4 sex.
Am I the only1 in this world? Please help me?
So you like try out fish taco because you are tire of hotdog? Go right ahead. I am sure your husband don't mind. He might enjoy watching it too. I know I am.
What's going on wth me? I've been married for 8 yrs and very much in-love with my husband. Our sex live is good,but I have been thinking about his hot sister for quite sometime now not for love,but only 4 sex.
Am I the only1 in this world? Please help me?
You mean that you are an LB? Well if you hink that you feel like your husban's sister is hot and sex and you just want to turn these pus-sy pus-sy to each other so just do cheat your husban sometime. But if that Sister in law wanted too.
No secret thing in this world, one day will be show up. You must prepare yourself to face with he problem in the future.
Think twice before you want to do something like that.
But you are not the only one who has this incident but both men and women has it too
Thank you all 4 the advice. I don't think I'm LB, I'm not in- love with a women , I just want to have sex with one that's all.
Well, then you just go a head if you would like to have it but shouldn't be with your own sister in law as you migh face family problem after that. You should go and have sex with other girl.
One thing, if you are not a Lesbien but even you think just you wanna try with women, you already Lesbien. Same as Streght Men can have sex sometime with men but he said he's not gay or queer but we cal them Bisexual
So you might call yourself Bisexual (women-women), that's not wrong
Well, then you just go a head if you would like to have it but shouldn't be with your own sister in law as you migh face family problem after that. You should go and have sex with other girl.
One thing, if you are not a Lesbien but even you think just you wanna try with women, you already Lesbien. Same as Streght Men can have sex sometime with men but he said he's not gay or queer but we cal them Bisexual
So you might call yourself Bisexual (women-women), that's not wrong
I Know what you mean a bout family thing. I've been thinking long and hard a bout it for so long and is just that we spend so much time together, when ever my husband's on business trips she'll stay with me for a wk to 2 and the worst part is we shared bed and she only wears t-shirt/underwear to sleep, you see what I mean?. This is killing me! I prayed so hard to Buddha for his help!
I Know what you mean a bout family thing. I've been thinking long and hard a bout it for so long and is just that we spend so much time together, when ever my husband's on business trips she'll stay with me for a wk to 2 and the worst part is we shared bed and she only wears t-shirt/underwear to sleep, you see what I mean?. This is killing me! I prayed so hard to Buddha for his help!
Hahaha...100% you are Bisexual which you like to have sex with men and women. I mean if you are really woman who likes to have sex with your sister in law. not a gentleman mak up just story to telling me.
I Know what you mean a bout family thing. I've been thinking long and hard a bout it for so long and is just that we spend so much time together, when ever my husband's on business trips she'll stay with me for a wk to 2 and the worst part is we shared bed and she only wears t-shirt/underwear to sleep, you see what I mean?. This is killing me! I prayed so hard to Buddha for his help!
Hahaha...100% you are Bisexual which you like to have sex with men and women. I mean if you are really woman who likes to have sex with your sister in law. not a gentleman mak up just story to telling me.
I'm not sure what you mean by that? "a gentleman make up just story."
I'm not sure what you mean by that? "a gentleman make up just story." -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Maybe you just try by hugging her while sleeping on the bed and let see how's she reaction. Only hugging..nothing eles. If she's fine and didn't move your arms off then you just try to just hug for a few days or weeks then starting by roll & rotate with the hands if she she ask you what are you doing? You just pretendig to say you are going to massage her. If she's alright and let you continuing then this is the chance to... You must be calm and slow and don't rush to do it. You can do massage her for a few days then take off her clothes and gengle massage..touching her boobs and her's between then so on... But Idon't promise you that this is gonna works or not coz different person diferent feeling
