How do you decide whom to marry?

samakomlao · Guru

How do you decide whom to marry?

Date: Dec 4, 2006

Marry the one you love, and be sure that she loves you too..."Unconditional Love" is the main word..for me...The one whom you will marry needs to understand that too...But, in this modern world, it's gonna to be hard to find...

Date: Dec 4, 2006

i 'm going to marry someone who can get along with me, who have good sense of humour, enjoy life

Date: Dec 4, 2006

ຕ້ອງ ຂາວ ສວຍ ໝວຍ ເຊັກ

Date: Apr 1, 2008

I'll marry someone who really loves me
Love is mean understand, help, forgiving
he must loves me the way I am being and od course I have to marry someone who I love and make sure that I can take care of myself, my family, not depend on parents anymore.
and the top dream before I get marry I hope I can have my own house and my mum have everything she wants or needs :)
maybe I have to work until 50 to reach this dream haha, then no more thinking of marry someone haha

SeeHarHed · Guru

good question... but i dont know how to answer this question. that's why i'm still single i guess.. hahahhahahah

i guess when you constantly thinks of her.. she lighten up your days and there for the supports.. and no other girls out there that gives you that... that's when you know it is time to settle down..

Date: May 16, 2008

Marry the one that u love and he/she must love u too. Don't marry because of money cos everything will turn into turmoil.

furthermore, don't marry because other people tell u to do so. choose for yourself, listen to your heart cos it's YOU that is getting married.

Choose wisely cos this is HAPPINESS OF A LIFE TIME

Date: May 16, 2008

I want to marry the girl that is well to do whom she loves me and her parents are wealthy and she is good looking enough, not necessary very sexy, pretty and smart.

Date: May 16, 2008

doesn't matter where she coming from as long that she love me and i love her uncondition. she doesn't have to look pretty or sexy, all i need is her good heart and be a good wife and a good mother for my kids, and i could spend the rest of my life with her.

Date: Sep 25, 2008

I want to marry a girl that comes from a rich family. Smart, hot, and sexy, with a nice apple ass. Good in bed. Good in the kitchen. Easy going and has good sense of humor. If there's a girl with this kind of descriptions please contact me. biggrin

Mr. Sexy Lao Lao

SeeHarHed · Guru

LaoLao wrote:

I want to marry a girl that comes from a rich family. Smart, hot, and sexy, with a nice apple ass. Good in bed. Good in the kitchen. Easy going and has good sense of humor. If there's a girl with this kind of descriptions please contact me.

Mr. Sexy Lao Lao

LMFAO!!!!! Only in a dream world buddy. Most of rich girls probably wants guy that are richer than them.

Nah ta por pai wat pai wa gar por la.. But, tong garn khon jai dee dee lae kaow jai kun. Vaow ma la yark dai mia la nee.. Mee poo sao yu Laos si son jai Ai Seeharhed yu bor?

Date: Sep 26, 2008

I'll just have my grandpa pick one for me, one that he raised and seen in Laos, because if it was me, I'll just go for the looks, her make up style, her fashion, an dont give a fucc bout her attitude.....as to whom to marry, I'll have my grandpa pick for me.....................beside that...Imma fat booty fuccin, love gettin desuction for nuttin handle my function....an im out beeeoooocccchhh!

SeeHarHed · Guru

savannakhet wrote:

I'll just have my grandpa pick one for me, one that he raised and seen in Laos, because if it was me, I'll just go for the looks, her make up style, her fashion, an dont give a fucc bout her attitude.....as to whom to marry, I'll have my grandpa pick for me.....................beside that...Imma fat booty fuccin, love gettin desuction for nuttin handle my function....an im out beeeoooocccchhh!

The one your grandpa raised??? So, another word that you'll be marrying your own cousin? LOL!!! Nice vocabularies dude!! Way to represent Lao/American dude and next time run a spelling check would you.

Date: Sep 26, 2008

sometimes we can't marry just because we love each other
without understanding each other you can't stay your whole
life just the love.
i will marry with the person who understand and mach(kao kun dai)
with me , with good heart because she will be my children's
mother.

Date: Sep 26, 2008

hahaha.... dude, you wrote "kao kun" I think you mean "kao gun" hahaha.....read it over what does it mean? First I thought you were talking about sex....hahaha

Date: Sep 26, 2008

Anonymous wrote:

hahaha.... dude, you wrote "kao kun" I think you mean "kao gun" hahaha.....read it over what does it mean? First I thought you were talking about sex....hahaha

i type mach with u and i translate in laos (kao gun dai) sorry with wrong
spelling. if you read my whole sentence no any line that can mean about sex
doh

SeeHarHed · Guru

Anonymous wrote:

hahaha.... dude, you wrote "kao kun" I think you mean "kao gun" hahaha.....read it over what does it mean? First I thought you were talking about sex....hahaha

Dirty minded you... ahhahahahahha "kao kun dai" is not the same as "het kun dai" ok man. Get your mind out of gutter. Must be thinking about SEX all day nor.. LOL

eye_sky · Guru

marry the one who loves you more than you love her/him. also, marry someone you feel you can live with for the rest of your life. finally, sometimes there is the matter of aesthetics. when you wake up in the morning, the first person you will see is the face of this love one, so make sure you are ready to see the same face every single day for the rest of your life. that way, you will be happy and content.

http://eye-in-the-blue-sky.blogspot.com/2008/09/my-dvd-shopping-frenzy-in-bangkok.html

eye_sky · Guru

just as an addition: although i believe that the major concern about marriage is that the couple really dearly love each other. it would also help if the family members of both couples are decent friends. after all, we are talking about an asian family where everyone is close knit and connected.

http://eye-in-the-blue-sky.blogspot.com/2008/09/my-dvd-shopping-frenzy-in-bangkok.html

Date: Sep 27, 2008

quit hatin mang! u must have understand what I wrote to respond back.....so if u understand.....stop tryin to correct people...about marrying my cuzzin? how do u know he raised a cuzzin of mine?...maybe he used to raise foster children......maybe he used to raised children in his village? feel me? or should I say, understand?...get it right next time b4 i throw money on ur girls leg an make it wide open for me................beeeooocchhh cold pal see mae mung buc ha gin thup ghin sai......understand that beeoocch?

Date: Sep 27, 2008

yo buc sehardhed...r u a English teacher?.....how about u succ on my dicc while i blow in your ear? understand that?...cuz if do, than u ain't an English teacher................fuccin faggit.....

SeeHarHed · Guru

Savannakhet wrote:

yo buc sehardhed...r u a English teacher?.....how about u succ on my dicc while i blow in your ear? understand that?...cuz if do, than u ain't an English teacher................fuccin faggit.....

No!! I'm not an english teacher nor I claim to be one either. But I know one thing though, my 4th grade niece can write alot better than you. She probably knows more words than you ever will.

You're so pathetic and buk dum wanna be. Bring your mom or sisters over so this fag can deep throat them. I'm sure that's all they know how to do. LOL!!

Date: Sep 27, 2008

REAL TALK THOUGH...Yo seharhed quit readin my ****, anyways....this a good topic, when it comes to marrying a someone, u gotz to understand it's different in culture, like in the United States people beleive in Love before they get married, but in other country they beleive in business marraige, infact, business marriage last longer Love marraige? sounds funny right?...I laught to when I heard it..in America Womans are Valuable because they are independent and knows how to make that money, so if ya get divorce or break up with a girl, don't even think no one will want her, because it be least than a Second where a new guy will jump on her quick! but in Laos they think there must be something wrong with the girl for her husband to leave her, but from my perspective, there's two wrong, because when I went to Laos, I respected woman so much, these girl be cooking for you, massage your back an even pluck your armpit! I was like " r they just actin an **** or is this for real?" until i see all my firends girlfreind acting like this towards them, I told them In America it's the opposite an they ain't beleive me, for the people that live in America, trust me, ya know how it is here, we wash our girls cloth, we buy them things, we cook for them an we the one giving them massage and when they divorce us, they get the money, but ya girls in Laos understand that, ya think we jokin, I remeber a group of 4 girls came inside my uncles house an i went to sit on the floor so they can sit on the sofa and they thought I was jokin an ****........an trust me when i say in the USA, the guys washes the dished, the guys clean an do they wife laundry.........see,.... to the ladies.....i don't know, ya think we jokin but see I'm the type that if u aint got no place to sit down, u can sit on my face, oh yea...an some of the niggas in Laos be keepin they girls on lock......man ya...give ya girl some money mang, let her have fun, let her get her grove on, she ain't goin cheat on u..............................I told u seharhed quit readin my ****...............can somone in here tell Seharhed quit readin my ****!

Date: Sep 27, 2008

yo seharhed my nigga look, y u gots to go so far mang? callin people buc dum, y r u so judemental, girls don't like that, i don't get it, how do buc dum talk? how do laos people talk? calm down playa, u actin like a lil girl, u need to smoke some weed man....just calm down...gettin all mad....im just sayin mang, u understood me in the beggininnging<-----u know what i meant, ok ok "beginning" happy now? if u understood me, u don't have to clown on people, maybe that's how the environment brought us up an that's how we type..at least send a private message saying " yo learn how to spell" u know, calm down mang...

Date: Sep 27, 2008

go back an read what u wrote about deepthroat, r u sayin imma deepthroat my mom an sister or u sayin that urself is a fag an ur goin to deepthroat them? calm down buddy

Date: Oct 2, 2008

Yeah See Ha hook, calm down brother, calm down. Listen to our lil bro Savanajat. He does make sense, you called him out first. As for Savanajet, no bad language alright? We are all brothers and sisters here. Let's have a group hug? wink

Anyway, I like what you wrote about the Lao women here and back in Laos. I totally agree with you. You get all the plays in Laos, but not here. Two different worlds.

Date: Oct 2, 2008

Yeah I know man. I was dreaming and I'm still dreaming. biggrin

Contact me ladies if you fit my descriptions....haha

Date: Oct 2, 2008

SeeHarHed wrote:

LaoLao wrote:

I want to marry a girl that comes from a rich family. Smart, hot, and sexy, with a nice apple ass. Good in bed. Good in the kitchen. Easy going and has good sense of humor. If there's a girl with this kind of descriptions please contact me.

Mr. Sexy Lao Lao

LMFAO!!!!! Only in a dream world buddy. Most of rich girls probably wants guy that are richer than them.
Nah ta por pai wat pai wa gar por la.. But, tong garn khon jai dee dee lae kaow jai kun. Vaow ma la yark dai mia la nee.. Mee poo sao yu Laos si son jai Ai Seeharhed yu bor?

Yeah I know man. I was dreaming and I'm still dreaming. Contact me ladies if you fit my descriptions....haha

Date: Oct 3, 2008

555555555555555 you are dreaming to marry to 5-7 wives, coz in one woman
you can not fine all of these qualities you mentioned..
......"I want to marry a girl that comes from a rich family. Smart, hot, and sexy, with a nice apple ass. Good in bed. Good in the kitchen. Easy going and has good sense of humor."

GOOD LUCK BRO.
my2cent

Date: Oct 11, 2008

thanks man...we know how it is here, that's why we treat them ladies good...!peace!

maribelle1226 · Senior Member

Savannakhet wrote:

REAL TALK THOUGH...Yo seharhed quit readin my ****, anyways....this a good topic, when it comes to marrying a someone, u gotz to understand it's different in culture, like in the United States people beleive in Love before they get married, but in other country they beleive in business marraige, infact, business marriage last longer Love marraige? sounds funny right?...I laught to when I heard it..in America Womans are Valuable because they are independent and knows how to make that money, so if ya get divorce or break up with a girl, don't even think no one will want her, because it be least than a Second where a new guy will jump on her quick! but in Laos they think there must be something wrong with the girl for her husband to leave her, but from my perspective, there's two wrong, because when I went to Laos, I respected woman so much, these girl be cooking for you, massage your back an even pluck your armpit! I was like " r they just actin an **** or is this for real?" until i see all my firends girlfreind acting like this towards them, I told them In America it's the opposite an they ain't beleive me, for the people that live in America, trust me, ya know how it is here, we wash our girls cloth, we buy them things, we cook for them an we the one giving them massage and when they divorce us, they get the money, but ya girls in Laos understand that, ya think we jokin, I remeber a group of 4 girls came inside my uncles house an i went to sit on the floor so they can sit on the sofa and they thought I was jokin an ****........an trust me when i say in the USA, the guys washes the dished, the guys clean an do they wife laundry.........see,.... to the ladies.....i don't know, ya think we jokin but see I'm the type that if u aint got no place to sit down, u can sit on my face, oh yea...an some of the niggas in Laos be keepin they girls on lock......man ya...give ya girl some money mang, let her have fun, let her get her grove on, she ain't goin cheat on u..............................I told u seharhed quit readin my ****...............can somone in here tell Seharhed quit readin my ****!

hey. i live in the US. you make it sound like we treat our men like slaves over here lol. you must be dating the wrong girls! i've been to laos too and it didn't seem as though the girls were THAT opressed. maybe they just aren't used to laotian men being such gentlemen as you were when you gave up your sofa for them. smile

Date: Oct 21, 2008

maribelle, maribelle, that's ur real name? if it is, than that's a beautiful name, if it ain't than u still beautiful, nah mean? biggrin

yea..u right, i give up.. i guess i was datin the wrong girls here,......... oh an about givin up the sofa for the girls, nah that ain't nuttin, that's just how a guy like me do it!.

Date: Oct 21, 2008

soo tai wrote:

I'll marry someone who really loves me
Love is mean understand, help, forgiving
he must loves me the way I am being and od course I have to marry someone who I love and make sure that I can take care of myself, my family, not depend on parents anymore.
and the top dream before I get marry I hope I can have my own house and my mum have everything she wants or needs :)
maybe I have to work until 50 to reach this dream haha, then no more thinking of marry someone haha

Oh you can do it before you hit 30. Just make sure you marry someone that's ambitous, not a lazy ass guy that just eats off you. wink

Date: Dec 30, 2009

This is what you call "Lao kah Lao". We are of the same race, color and creed. If we are not able to get along with each other then how can we expect for others to do so. We live in a country where freedom of speech is a right to each. If you don't like what one person says move on. Opinions are exactly that, opinions, whether you agree, disagree, or feel indifferent about it. No need to bring anyone down with negativity. If you choose to do so do not get defensive when you provoke a negative reaction with you comments. Eat more sticky rice and papaya salad. PEACE!

Date: Dec 31, 2009

I want someone who doesn't mind smelling my fart because it really stinks. When I fart, I don't want my partner to brush the air and run away from me. I want a big smile instead.

Date: Dec 31, 2009

When my daddy and mummy tell me to that's when I know whom to marry.

Date: Feb 7, 2010

Am a girl , recently met a guy for arranged marriage i liked him and we had 1 week chat and we both fell in love with eachother. I come from rich family and he from middle class family. I believe in different god and he and his family believes in different god.I really wanna go for him. My parents are not supportive of my decision. What to do? I cant think of living without him and at the same time i dont wanna disappoint my parents too.

Kindly help me what to do?

BingBing · Veteran Member

I'm going to be a pimp for the rest of my life. Too many cute ones to settle down. LMAO!!!

-- Edited by BingBing on Sunday 7th of February 2010 09:30:59 PM

Date: Feb 7, 2010

BingBing wrote:

I'm going to be a pimp for the rest of my life. Too many cute ones to settle down. LMAO!!!

-- Edited by BingBing on Sunday 7th of February 2010 09:30:59 PM

how can you be a pimp you spend all day at samakomlao lolz biggrin

BingBing · Veteran Member

Anonymous wrote:

BingBing wrote:

I'm going to be a pimp for the rest of my life. Too many cute ones to settle down. LMAO!!!

-- Edited by BingBing on Sunday 7th of February 2010 09:30:59 PM

how can you be a pimp you spend all day at samakomlao lolz

Does online pimping around count? LMAO!

khonthakek · Guru

LaoLao wrote:

I want to marry a girl that comes from a rich family. Smart, hot, and sexy, with a nice apple ass. Good in bed. Good in the kitchen. Easy going and has good sense of humor. If there's a girl with this kind of descriptions please contact me.

Mr. Sexy Lao Lao

your dream... hope it comes true haha

Date: Feb 8, 2010

Hey...dude... you wanna woman good in bed, good in kitchen, good around the house, and work hard, good in saving all the $$$. That's too much to ask 4. speciallllly in USA you can't have them all in 1 girl. I mean you can't find a complete girl like that. Just remember the American standard is win some, lose some. If she's good in bed, she's not good in kitchen. If she's arrogant, she doesn't care about man.
My advice to you is TRUST & LOVE b4 you get married. Do not look 4 just beauty alone. bcoz beauty is only under the skin & it fades away as we get older. On the other hand, TRUST & LOVE last 4 a life time.

Date: Feb 8, 2010

samakomlao wrote:

For those who already married or plan to marry, please share your opinion

when your heart goes boom boom and after thinking through 10 times your mind cannot find a reason not to agree with your heart, then that is the right person.

Date: Dec 25, 2012

you should get married only to d one whome you feel can give you best kids,,, and whome you can picture to b a great dad...only that guy u cn b sure to get married to....