one, your friend must be special, for you to want to help her.
two, if you believe she is to continue with the affair, both of your guys should go find a tall bridge and jump off. the fear and out-of-body experience while falling to your pending death can bring out a moment of clarity.
and it is in that few seconds of clarity that some people can realize that cheating on someone else's bf or spouse is an act of selfishness and hurtful behavior.
having said that, the thrill and joy from an affair can give ppl the feeling of rush and renewal, for ppl like the game where they are being chased and pursued while others like the pursuing.
-- Edited by tinko on Wednesday 24th of March 2010 01:46:12 PM
i was kidding about the jumping off the bridge okay?
your friend is special to you so i think you should spend as much time with her as possible.
the hope is that the positive bonding you and your friend will experience, when she spends more time with you and away from temptation, will encourage and give her power to seek happiness and joy doing something more positive.
-- Edited by tinko on Wednesday 24th of March 2010 01:48:49 PM
Your friend is doing committing a sin. I know she know that what she doing is wrong. If I were you, I would tell her to stop it and if she doesn't, she and him deserve each other then. Karma is a bitch!!!
i was kidding about the jumping off the bridge okay?
your friend is special to you so i think you should spend as much time with her as possible.
the hope is that the positive bonding you and your friend will experience, when she spends more time with you and away from temptation, will encourage and give her power to seek happiness and joy doing something more positive.
-- Edited by tinko on Wednesday 24th of March 2010 01:48:49 PM
If I'm her friend I'll drop her too! If she can cheat on someone else boy friend/husband and someday she can do you wrong too!
why blamed on her but not the guy i think that guy is wrong too, he already has a girlfriend but still go out with another girl, is that right? NO guys in lao always like this, don't wanna leave one and still want one too
my advice to your friend.... "go for it"!!! aow hai mun kuc kuc lode.. you're only live once!! hahahhahah and another advice is... "just don't get caught" and practice safe sex.. LOL
my friend told me that she wana play around with the guy and not so serious, and she told me that the guy probably not serious with her as well, so I advice my friend that Up to you then and just don't let his gf find out... otherwise she will be hurt.. i tell you guyz more, the guy is thai guy..
if your friend is not so serious about it and just wanna hang around with that thai guy just for fun then why she asked you for the advice but still cheatting on someone's bf is not a good manner
A true friend won't let other do the wrong thing. Thing's already done, let it goes & focus on the future. Your friend knew that Thai guy has gf. and she also said that she did not want to get serious. She just want to try n find out how sex like w/somebody's bf. If I were u, tell her to stop it. Otherwise leave her, she's not worth to be friend with. What goes around, comes around. The guy is not gonna leave his gf. 4 your friend. He just want to use her as back up if u will. Good luck w/your friend.
my friend told me that she wana play around with the guy and not so serious, and she told me that the guy probably not serious with her as well, so I advice my friend that Up to you then and just don't let his gf find out... otherwise she will be hurt.. i tell you guyz more, the guy is thai guy..
your friend like thai guy alot huh, if the guy was lao, i guess your friend will seperate from the guys now... becareful, maybe the thai guys already got married...
why you don't go with Laotian guy,because Laotian guy they are good looking too plus they got big large penny and long(13 inch) and the best penny in the world haaaa haaaa haaaa that what you want (ອີ່ຮ່າມືງ ອີ່ຫີລະເບີດ)
why you don't go with Laotian guy,because Laotian guy they are good looking too plus they got big large penny and long(13 inch) and the best penny in the world haaaa haaaa haaaa that what you want (ອີ່ຮ່າມືງ ອີ່ຫີລະເບີດ)
ອີ່ຮ່າມືງ ອີ່ຫີລະເບີດ HAHAHHAHAHHAHAH pateeetooee...!!! dah kuc nor.. khon haow kerd ma muk kin bor kue kun... long pai mode lode
A FRIEND OF MINE ASKED MY ADVICE WHAT TO DO,BUT I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO SUGGEST HER A RIGHT DIRECTION,
MY FRIEND SHE SLEPT WITH A GUY WHO HAS A GF...BUT THE GUY ALWAYS KEEP MEETING MY FRIEND, BUT HE CAN'T LEAVE HIS GF...
WHAT CAN MY FRIEND DO??
this is one of the example that you don't follow the 5 precepts of buddhism. #4 Refrain from Sexual Misconduct. these 5 precepts have been used for 2000 plus years. it still works. if you don't follow you can see the result from your friend situation. she knows that person belong to some one else and she still wants that person to be hers. tell her that is wrong!!! tell her to ask herself that does she like it when someone want her boy friend or sleep with her boy friend?.
1. Refrain From Killing 2. Refrain from Stealing 3. Refrain from Lying, Slandering, Gossiping and Spreading Rumours 4. Refrain from Sexual Misconduct 5. Refrain from Taking Intoxicants
A FRIEND OF MINE ASKED MY ADVICE WHAT TO DO,BUT I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO SUGGEST HER A RIGHT DIRECTION,
MY FRIEND SHE SLEPT WITH A GUY WHO HAS A GF...BUT THE GUY ALWAYS KEEP MEETING MY FRIEND, BUT HE CAN'T LEAVE HIS GF...
WHAT CAN MY FRIEND DO??
this is one of the example that you don't follow the 5 precepts of buddhism. #4 Refrain from Sexual Misconduct. these 5 precepts have been used for 2000 plus years. it still works. if you don't follow you can see the result from your friend situation. she knows that person belong to some one else and she still wants that person to be hers. tell her that is wrong!!! tell her to ask herself that does she like it when someone want her boy friend or sleep with her boy friend?.
1. Refrain From Killing 2. Refrain from Stealing 3. Refrain from Lying, Slandering, Gossiping and Spreading Rumours 4. Refrain from Sexual Misconduct 5. Refrain from Taking Intoxicants
but they are just boy girl friend, they are not married yet, no ones belonged to whom?? so she doesn't break the SINH 5 ok..
my advice to your friend.... "go for it"!!! aow hai mun kuc kuc lode.. you're only live once!! hahahhahah and another advice is... "just don't get caught" and practice safe sex.. LOL
Easy Easy Brother Seehahed, Don't teach the Boy (sia khon) ha.ha..
A FRIEND OF MINE ASKED MY ADVICE WHAT TO DO,BUT I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO SUGGEST HER A RIGHT DIRECTION,
MY FRIEND SHE SLEPT WITH A GUY WHO HAS A GF...BUT THE GUY ALWAYS KEEP MEETING MY FRIEND, BUT HE CAN'T LEAVE HIS GF...
WHAT CAN MY FRIEND DO??
this is one of the example that you don't follow the 5 precepts of buddhism. #4 Refrain from Sexual Misconduct. these 5 precepts have been used for 2000 plus years. it still works. if you don't follow you can see the result from your friend situation. she knows that person belong to some one else and she still wants that person to be hers. tell her that is wrong!!! tell her to ask herself that does she like it when someone want her boy friend or sleep with her boy friend?.
1. Refrain From Killing 2. Refrain from Stealing 3. Refrain from Lying, Slandering, Gossiping and Spreading Rumours 4. Refrain from Sexual Misconduct 5. Refrain from Taking Intoxicants
but they are just boy girl friend, they are not married yet, no ones belonged to whom?? so she doesn't break the SINH 5 ok..
It might not be sinful to you, but it is a bad karma & unethical.
What is karma?
Karma is a Sanskrit word that literally means "action". The word is used to refer to volitional acts as well as the fruits or consequences that arise from these acts. The idea of karma had existed in ancient Indian philosophy before the time of Siddhartha Gautama, and it became an important element of Buddhist philosophy.
The Hindu and Buddhist concepts of karma are quite similar, although Hinduism makes a further distinction between different types of karma, such as present karma, latent karma, and future karma. In the understanding of both thought systems, the law of karma describes the connection between actions and the resulting forces, as follows: wholesome actions lead to wholesome states while unwholesome actions lead to unwholesome states, individually as well as collectively.
The ethical dimension.
To make this more intelligible, one has to account for (un)wholesome actions and (un)wholesome states and their respective meaning in Buddhism. The former is outlined in the Noble Eightfold Path. Action springs from volition, which springs from intention, which springs from thought, and so forth. The quality of actions can be described in ethical terms, simply as either good or bad, or both good and bad, or indifferent.
There are various grades of ethical qualities; and most people have an intuitive understanding that enables them to discern between good and bad, although the discerning ability depends on the person's state of mental development. A wise person at a high level of mental development can clearly discern mental activities and actions in an ethical dimension, while a deluded person has difficulties or is even unable to do so.
